Meet Our Inspiring Voice Caja, 30, working in Political Communications.
At what age did you freeze your eggs?
I froze my eggs right before my 30th birthday.
What were your main reasons for freezing your eggs?
I have been single for most of the past years. At the same time, I used my 20s to gain experiences, discover, and realize my professional ambitions. Last year, shortly after my 29th birthday, I asked myself how I wanted to spend the next ten years. Since it has always been clear to me that I wanted biological children, family planning naturally also played an important role. By deciding to freeze my eggs, I gave myself more time to answer these questions: I can continue to pursue my career path in the coming years, avoid putting too much pressure on myself to find a partner, and still hold onto my family plans.
How did you first hear about egg freezing?
I first heard about egg freezing several years ago in a podcast. Last year, I started searching for information myself.
Did you prepare before starting the process?
I had many conversations with friends and informed myself online with blog posts, on social media, and with podcasts. I was also lucky to have found a great gynecologist and later a great endocrinologist.
Were there any barriers or challenges you faced before starting?
Of course, there was the question of financing. I saved up specifically throughout the year for this. I wished I could speak with women who had already gone through this experience.
Did you have any fears to overcome before starting?
I often wondered if my decision was the right one and would have liked to exchange thoughts with other women.
How did you feel during and after the procedure?
My body responded very well but also very strongly to the hormones. On one hand, this was great because I was able to achieve a very good result with just one cycle. On the other hand, I underestimated how physically demanding the process would be. Ultimately, I was happy to have taken this step and was very proud of myself.
Has this decision influenced your life plans? If so, how?
Absolutely! I now look forward to the coming years with much more ease. I actually see it this way: I can approach my life much more relaxed now, knowing that the biological pressure is much lower.
What does egg freezing mean to you personally?
Independence and security.
Is there anything you would have done differently?
There are a few things I might have wished for: more knowledge, more women to talk to. But with the knowledge I had last year, I don’t think I would have done anything differently. Everything went well.
Would you freeze your eggs again?
YES!
What advice would you give to other women considering it?
Every question you have about the process is valid. If you’re uncertain about anything, keep asking until you’re satisfied with the answer. It’s your body, your future, and you have every right to know exactly what’s happening with both. It also helped me a lot to speak openly with my friends and family about it. Only then they can support you, whether it’s mental support or picking you up from the clinic after the procedure.